Technology and parenting.

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I'm warning you this is a stream of consciousness post.  You have been warned.

I.T. has evolved. 

We are long past the days of dial-up modems, AOL, and "you've got mail."

Email is a regular form of communication. 

Chats and text messages are faster more immediate means of communicating via text. 

Phones are no longer phones they are pocket computers and cameras which also act as phones.  

The world is becoming more connected everyday.   

Refrigerators, Ovens, air conditioners, light bulbs, ceiling fans, door locks, cars, are all being connected to the internet.  

Privacy feels like a thing of the past. 

None of this matters to your children.   

For them, all of this is normal. 

All the tech in the world doesn't matter to them.  

They need Love.  

They need you. 

MAKE TIME, EVERY DAY to give them your undivided attention for at least 30 minutes.  

EVERY!

SINGLE!

DAY!

Sometimes it's taking them outside for a walk.  Or gardening.  Or playing in the park. 

Sometimes it's helping them solve a puzzle in a Lego game.  

But SPEND TIME WITH THEM.

EVERY 

DAY.  

Technology doesn't replace human interaction.

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